Fall In Love, Now!

Life is simple. But living the life is a tedious process.
Life does not end. Only the precess of living ends.

Between the sun rise and the sun set, many things do happen.
What we experience until we go to bed is not life, but the act of living.

To face life, we do not need anyone. But to continue living, we need the support of someone. Because living the reality is nerve-racking. Hopes get shattered. Smiles turn sour.Ambitions become nightmares. Dreams get disillusioned.

In reality, to live the life we all need to be bold. Boldness is an attitude we generate, and stick on to continue living. Boldness is evolved when we think we have a companion to support us, help us and lead us. No human existence is possible without the support of another human being.

The term 'support' has a wide range of meanings that would fit each individuals need. But remember, support never comes free from another human being. One has to sacrifice something while the other has to accept something in return to establish mutual support.

The very thought of such a mutual support makes living a bit easier, comfortable, soothing and peaceful. What one pays for it is another one's need. We call it "love".

Let me tell you, mere love is only a fever. It comes and goes. Once the fever is over you turn to another one for love. Love is a passing illusion. It never makes life easier. It makes living more devilish than it actually is.

So how do we face life, or the process of living, boldly? The simple formula for living free is to love someone generously. It is "selfless love".

Selfless love has a meaning. Its meaning is understood by the taker, not the giver. The takers support the givers.

Selfless love is eternal. It is not a passing fancy like ordinary love. Selfless love is a rare breed of its own. Even ardent lovers do miss it. Even couples do miss it in their married life. In fact no one seeks it. Selfless love is more godly. It makes life peaceful, simpler and holistic.

So fall in selfless love, I say. Ignore the social taboos or stigmas to experience selfless love. Women need it more badly than men. Only men can give it to a woman. That is the charm of it.
Then it becomes a real-life problem of the society. Not yours.